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Online Affairs and Cyber Infidelity
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Here are some of the ways we can assist you:
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Why do men and women cheat? Men tend
to be more physical and visual than women.
In most cases men do not require an
emotional connection for everyone they have
sex with, nor do they desire a long term
emotional commitment afterwards. Most
men we have caught cheating, truly cared
about their partner and have mentally
separated the two. When they are confronted
by their partner they almost always respond
"it was just sex" and for them thats all it was.
Women on the other hand are more
emotional and require more attention. In our
experience their cheating is an affair of the
heart. They often need to fill a void left by
what they believe is a less than attentive or
caring partner. The majority of the women
we have caught cheating almost always say
"your were never there for me" or you "were
never around".
For years as an infidelity investigator I can
say this was the case. However both sides
have evolved. Men have become more
emotional and women more masculine in
their way of thinking. Todays modern woman
excuses her behavior by saying "men have
been doing it for years, why shouldn't I. The
truth is that we are all over stimulated and
the majority of the population is bored. This
coupled with the anything on demand world
that computers bring to our home or office
sets the stage for an affair.
Online affairs are becoming a huge problem for relationships because the person having the affair convinces themselves that they aren't doing anything wrong since the affair isn't physical. We have conducted hundreds of infidelity investigations that originated as an online affair. Online affairs almost always manifest into a "physical relationship" at some point.
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What Is The Appeal Of Online Affairs?
Attention form someone else, which is really cheating since the affair isn't physical.
How do you know if your spouse is violating the marriage vows by carrying out an online affair?
Ten signs your partner is having an online affair are: 1) Your partner is way to involved with the computer
socially networking. 2) Passwords are changed or are no longer saved, and the history is deleted. 3)Your
partner stays up late or stays home more to use the computer. 4)Your partner abruptly closes web pages
when you approach. 5) Your partner rearranges his or her office so you can't see the screen or so they
can see you coming. 6) Buddy or friends list are hidden. 7) Your partner becomes confrontational or
argumentative when asked why they are spending so much time online. 8)Your partner visits chat rooms
or social networking sites like Flock, MySpace, Facebook and Classmates.com 9) Your partner confides
with or relies on their online "friend" more than you. 10) Your partner password protects their web browser
by using a parental controls, installs additional web browsers or suddenly becomes paranoid about
identity theft and installs all kinds of stuff to wipe out personal information and block Spy-ware.
Online Flirting on social networking sites, chats rooms, and social browsers almost always evolve into a
physical meeting for coffee at a Starbucks. This is then followed by physical infidelity in either a vehicle or
a hotel. Its all a matter of how long the online affair has been going on and how in the dark you've been.
The more they get away with it the more they are inclined to engage in the behavior. In more recent online
investigations or infidelity investigations we find people who have evolved into sex addicts. People who
have actually posted profiles on websites for married people looking for sex
Is your computer responsible for your partner's cheating?
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This page is dedicated to helping you understand what an online affair is and how you can determine if your spouse is cheating on you. Everything underlined on this page are links to other websites with additional information to assist you in understanding your partners new online relationship. Below are ways you can optimize their computer which will help you or a forensic examiner catch them. Contact us for a free consultation or to discuss your investigative alternatives.
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Ten Things You Can Do To Catch Your Cheating Partner
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Surveillance Specialist Group investigators are experts in infidelity investigations and computer
investigations. If you are not extremely computer savvy please hire someone. Trying to snoop on your
unfaithful partners computer will only tip them off that you have become suspicious to their actions. In
efforts to continue living both lives they'll just shift their activities to a mobile device or a work
computer(which you won't have access to).
Most snooping wives get caught because the e-mails appear to be read when they should be new or the
history isn't shows website that were not there before or out of sequence. If you refuse to take our
professional advice here are some things you can do. These tips will create the optimal environment for
you or our investigators to review what the cheating spouse has been doing online.
- Set the browser "Cache" to maximum size. This will increase the amount of web data that is left on the
hard drive. Here are examples for "Internet Explorer" and "Mozilla's Fire Fox". 1024 is usually the max
for IE.
- Set the browser to auto save passwords without prompting. In IE you can go to Tools>Internet
Options>Content Tab>Auto Complete, Settings. In the box check off everything but "Prompt me to
save passwords". This will save auto complete information and passwords without alerting the user.
You will have to look up similar settings for other browsers.
- Make sure the browser is not set to "Auto Delete History" when the browser is closed.
- Use the registry instead of the web browser to view Internet History. Start>Run>Type Regedit>Goto
HKEY_CURRENT_USER\Software\Microsoft\Internet Explorer\TypedURLs. This way you can look at
the websites visited without opening the browser. If it was deleted your spouse has already erased
some of their tracks and you need a professional.
- Make backup copies of their cookies, History, and Temporary Internet files and save to a location on
the computer that they won't find or to a USB Thumb Drive. You can use a different computer to
review them later.
- If you have a drive that backs up your data, set the temporary Internet files to be backed up.
- Do not snoop on their computer. If you really want to catch them cheating give them rope to hang
themselves. Go out more with your friends, kids, or family. Do not show any interest in their online
activities. Don't use Spy-ware or key loggers they expose your personal information to the Internet.
- If you know their passwords go to the library or use your work computer to read their e-mails or log
onto their social networking accounts. Make sure you mark the e-mails as unread when you are done.
- Make sure that if you don't normally use the computer to put everything where you found it including
the chair, pencils, and items on the desktop. They may have left things a certain way to detect if you
have been snooping.
- Stop reading and call us at 877-787-7075 for a free consultation. We are infidelity Experts!
Online Computer Investigations
Computer Forensic Examination
Setup Network Sniffers to Display
Websites Visited by Suspect PC
Conduct a Surveillance to see if your
partner or spouse is hooking up with
people they have met as a result of an
online affair.
Install a covert camera or GPS
Tracking device in the vehicle your
partners drives, to determine if they
are meeting with others.
Spouse that "Swings Alone" are
really cheating. Often married
persons looking for sex will seek out
married couples on swinging
websites or Craig's list. They don't
want to get caught or have someone
show up on their door step one day.
Swinging couples gives them the
ability to have the affair and not have
to worry about someones spouse
finding out and calling their spouse.
Many times acquiring an image of your partners hard drive is a covert operation. Our investigators can quickly clone the hard drive of the target computer and the subject will never know that they are under investigation. Often we meet clients near their home and can make a copy of the drive while they are doing their shopping or running errands.
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